Rigidity can be helpful, but only for “responsibility” things, i.e. things that require dedication; for example- studies, as in concentrating yourself and accomplishing tasks; aiming at your future; planning things for life that you intend to commit to; and dealing with money and others.
However, your “feeling side” is worth using for all the rest of your life, because that is where you lie, that is where your personality belongs to, your feelings, your opinions, your thoughts, your sensations your own ‘self’.
Therefore, it is wise to use your rigidness and strictness in places where your own ‘self’ and your feelings will do no good, at places where the results are what matter most. With the rest of your life and in your every-day- everywhere you go, every relationship that you go through, the way that you see everything that happens to you and the way that you see others- you may only guide yourself by what you feel and what brings you joy, because whatever that is, it will define who you really are, what you are really telling yourself, and it will bring you (you will bring yourself) what you really want for yourself. The idea is to live your life as if it were going to end at this very moment, and to be as happy and as intense about it as you can be!
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